The e-mail I sent (below) was in response to a call by Shirley Mertz from the Metastatic Breast Cancer Network, asking for volunteers who would like to share their story about living with metastatic cancer. I had sent my reply to my blog via e-mail, but the original message did not come through.
This past week I had another check-up at the hospital and this time Nancy joined me. Fortunately, everything is stable and my blood values were in line with last time. The drugs are working well for me. I found out I have the Luminal B subtype, which is ER positive and 50% PR positive (Her2 negative). I still have to finish my report of the conference. Tomorrow Victor is celebrating his birthday and his degree in tax law so it will have to wait for another day. Shirley sent me a very nice e-mail in reply.
I’ve enjoyed watching the World Cup games these last two weeks. I hope I’m back in time to watch the Dutch team on Monday against Chile, who seem quite good this year.
Till next time friends!
theank you so much for your e-mail asking for people who wish to share their story. I would very much like to share my story with others.
First of all, I am living in Europe, in The Netherlands to be exact. I went to college in the US and lived in the US for 11 years, although I’m a Dutch citizen.
I don’t know if you would want a story from Europe, but I follow MBCN and would like to have a chapter or network like MBCN here in Europe.
My story is one of hope and my recovery feels like a miracle to me.
I was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer in July of 2012, at the first diagnosis, when I was 42. There was no history of breast cancer in my family. Also, I didn’t feel anything in my breast because I was checking for lumps, whereas this tumor felt like my breast bone (upper part of right breast.)
The metastases were spread all throughout my liver, so that it was one and a half times as big, like a deflated soccer ball. My liver was in such bad shape that hormone treatment wasn’t an option because it takes 6 to 8 weeks to start working and my liver was barely working (bilirubin at 50). After the first 10 weeks of weekly chemo’s (AC) didn’t work well enough, I got very sick from infections due to neutropenia. I could not eat or talk becausebof the mucositis and stomasitis. Meanwhile, my oncologist thought the cancer was growing and didn’t have much hope. I did not think I would live till Christmas of 2012.
Fortunately, I was transferred in October to the National Cancer hospital where I was given Mitomycin-C locally in the liver. Two treatments and two months later the results were so good that much of the cancer in the liver was replaced by scar tissue. The liver stabilized and I could eat and talk again. From january 2013 I took Xeloda which reduced the cancer in the breast and since May 2013 I’ve been on hormone therapy (Letrozol). I’ve been in menopauze due to the cancer, not the chemo. I’ve gone back to work – I work as a IT architect contractibg for the government – and have been getting back in shape by execising and eating healthy. Most of the time I feel great. I look good again and can function almost as before. My message to others is that there is life after hearing you have metastatic cancer, and with the right treatment and frame of mind and support more is possible than you would expect. I’m not cured – the cancer is there there but inactive – so as lomg as the hormone therapy works I’m fine.
I also am part of a social network of other women with mets here, because there are very few resources for people like us. What bothers me especially is that patients with mets often don’t seem to count. The images and fundraising campaigns in the media suggest that either you can be cured (stages 1-3) or else you face imminent death (stage 4) and this frightens people. Research results and treatments for metastasized breast cancer are not easy to find here and there’s a big gap in knowledge between oncologists and hospitals. The many regulations slow down research projects and make the drugs exorbitantly expensive. Still, I am extremely gratefull for this second chance I’ve been giving at ut has nade me value my husband, family, nature, friends and my life so much more, I’ve taken up windsurfing and writing and work less.
That’s my story. I’ve bee writing about my experiences at http://www.sheilaghosh.com in case you’re interested. This is a public site so feel free to use anything that you find interesting, with a citation/ reference. I hope you don’t mind but I am publishing this letter on my blog so others can follow. If you do mind, let me know and I will remove it.
Please let me know if I can help in any way.
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